Women-first Event-based dating Safety & respect

About HerCall

HerCall is an event-based dating platform where women define the context, the pace and the kind of connections they want to create.

Our vision

HerCall was created with a simple idea in mind: to put women back at the center of the dating experience, in a calmer, better framed and more respectful environment.

Connections are built around real-life events: a coffee, a workshop, a cultural outing, a lunch, a walk, and more. The goal is to create interactions without pressure, in settings that feel right for the people who host them.

What makes us different

  • Women-first: on HerCall, women host the events, set the frame and the ground rules (format, location, vibe, number of participants, etc.) and decide who can attend.
  • Event-based connections: we focus on shared moments rather than endless swiping.
  • Respect & consent: every interaction must respect personal boundaries. Harassment and intrusive behaviour have no place on HerCall.

How HerCall works

For women

  • create a profile,
  • host events (format, location, possible requirements),
  • decide who is allowed to attend,
  • edit or cancel an event when needed.

For men

  • create a profile,
  • apply to events hosted by women,
  • wait for approval or refusal,
  • follow the rules stated in the event description.

For chaperones / moderation (where applicable)

  • support or supervise some events,
  • help maintain safety and a positive atmosphere.

Our commitment to safety

Safety and respect are key priorities on HerCall. However, no platform can fully control what happens offline.

We provide, among other things:

  • tools to report and block profiles,
  • moderation of content and reported behaviour,
  • regular reminders about good practices, respect and consent.

We encourage every user to stay cautious, favour public places for first meetings, let a trusted person know about their plans, and report any inappropriate behaviour.

Inclusion & respect

HerCall is designed for adults who want to meet others in a respectful, non-discriminatory environment.

We do not tolerate:

  • hate speech or discrimination,
  • harassment, threats or intimidation,
  • illegal content or content that violates our rules.

Profiles that do not comply with these principles may be restricted or removed, in accordance with our Terms of Use.

What HerCall is not

To avoid misunderstandings, HerCall is not:

  • an escort or prostitution service,
  • a platform for explicit sexual content,
  • a marriage agency with guaranteed results,
  • a professional or commercial event management service.

Events on HerCall are created and hosted by users themselves. HerCall does not guarantee that every event will take place, nor its quality or outcomes.

Important notes

  • 18+ only: HerCall is strictly reserved for users who are 18 years old or older.
  • Individual responsibility: each user is responsible for their words, actions and behaviour, both online and offline.
  • No guarantee of results: HerCall provides tools to connect people and organise events, but does not guarantee matches, compatibility or relationships.